asp_023mNo doubt when you started blogging you wanted to become the type of blogger that everybody loves. This can be really great for you and your blog which means your blog will always have traffic, and once they love you then this means they will want to share your articles (this means free promotion).

But apart from becoming a friendly blogger, how can we become a blogger that everybody loves?

Becoming a blogger that everybody loves can be really easy and it takes no extra effort on your part to play this role. In this article I will help you to become a blogger that everybody loves.

5 Helpful Tips

  • Be Unique

People are normally attracted to unique things no matter what it is, this is just normal for us humans. Having a unique blog on the internet in a competitive niche is one of the best things that can contribute to your success.

If you visit:
Hesham Zebida’s blog (
Extreme John’s blog (
Lisa Irby’s blog (

What do you notice about these blogs? They are unique and have unique designs.

All 4 blogs are using the Thesis Theme which is easy to design to make your blog unique.

  • Be Kind

You have to be kind for people to love you and this statement is true. If you are not kind then people will not want to be your friend and if you are a mean blogger then no traffic for you.

You can show your kindness be including a top commentators list to reward your commentators for commenting on your articles, or you can do what I do, by rewarding my weekly commentators by sharing their links in a post specially for them.

  • Be Helpful

I like helping new and upcoming bloggers in building up their blogs. I will offer my help to anybody who needs it. Being helpful is another factor that can contribute for people loving you.

I remember when I started blogging, Rob Rammuny was really helpful to me. I would often chat with him on Skpye, tweet to him on Twitter, email him and he even called me on the phone, giving me very helpful tips on how to make blogging work for me. I thank Rob so much for the help that he has given me.

Lisa Irby also helped me in choosing this domain name foe my blog. I had some other domain names that I wanted to start this blog, so I emailed Lisa and asked her what she think. She said that she was surprise that this domain name wasn’t taken already and that I should not hesitate to buy it.

  • Be True


When you write blog posts, do you often fill it with lies to throw off your readers completely? Or do you tell the truth making your blog readers develop trust for you?

This is a question that you need to ask yourself, and if you don’t know the answer to these questions then you should not be blogging. When you blog you need to tell the truth if you are an affiliate marketer so as not to lead your blog readers into buying products that will be of no help to them.

If you are affiliate marketing, you need to give the correct review of this product and don’t lie to make them buy it just to put extra money in your pocket.


  • Be Yourself


Don’t hide your identity. In order to become a blogger that everybody loves you have to make your blog readers know who you are. Include an about page on your blog with your bio. Don’t try to be somebody that you aren’t.

Group Discussion


  • Are you striving to be the blogger that everybody loves?



  1. Reply

    Some of us are called to share the Truth so we aren’t going to be bloggers that everyone loves. There are exceptional bloggers that applies to though. Kristi Hines @Kikolani is the one blogger I believe everyone loves – and she is consistently sweet AND tremendously talented.

    Ileane @BasicBlogTips has a huge following of people who love her – and listen to her. Few get as much done in a day as Kristi or Ileane.

    One of the bloggers you mentioned is not well loved at all for good cause. Each of us must use discernment and not be led astray by anything for a buck bloggers.

    • Reply

      Kristi and Ileane are two great bloggers and I love the uniqueness of their blogs.

      Well this post was written a long time ago, so I guess some persons have changed.

  2. Mani Viswanathan


    Writing for the readers will always bring in loads of traffic & eventually you will be loved by your readers/visitors.

  3. Reply

    Write about popular topics, criticize but do not insult, be fun, replay to comments on his blog, answer the questions, give advice, be fun again …

  4. Reply

    Thanks for mentioning me in your post Kharim I appreciate it. People would be surprised just how hard it is to build and maintain relationships long term, my word of advice would be to keep being true and working for the community. Great kets to becoming a successful and well liked blogger that stays involved in the community.

    • Reply

      You’re welcome John. Building up relationships with other bloggers and your readers is the best thing to do in order to become the blogger that everybody loves. This is what I am trying to do so to better tend to my readers and also other bloggers 🙂

      Thanks for the comment

  5. Reply

    Hey Kharim,

    Those people are inspirational bloggers, haven’t visited extremjohn yet, will definitely do today.

    Thanks for sharing the list!

  6. PankajGupta


    These all points are useful and to become a successful blogger we need to follow them. Thanks for sharing 🙂

  7. Richard


    Hi Kharim,
    Great tips. I think one of the things that really helps a blog take off is finding ways to be helpful to others. If you can really hit the mark on what people need and you can provide that service to them, then your blog will take off.

  8. Ryan Biddulph


    All are super helpful tips Kharim. Being true works for me and my readers. You must be unique and speak from your heart, and you must not mislead your readers for they won’t trust you. Without the trust of your readers you can’t build significant relationships with them.

    Thanks for sharing!


  9. Rob Rammuny


    Was always a pleasure helping you out Kharim, you were and still are to this date one of the top people who have shown success and taken action.

    Keep it up and keep me updated.

  10. Hesham


    Hey Kharim,

    Thank you man for the great post, and the kind mention, really appreciate it 🙂

    And.. yes.. being kind, helpful and true is something we should all do!

  11. Hunter


    I think being unique is the best tip. No one wants to see the same thing over and over.

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